This post is for a few close friends going through some chit. Ladies, you know who you are. So through all the mishaps, cheating, curiosity, loss, gain, misery, pain, love, crushes, and experiences i've been through these seem to be the same basic lessons I learn. Every time. So maybe this will help.
Life is an experience we learn from. <--- DUH!
Sometimes we learn positive things and other times we learn about the negative aspects we all harbor within. <---DUH again.
Everyone loves. Everyone loses. Everyone Lives. Rinse lather repeat. <--- Okay im done reading now.
Life is simply a journey of knowledge. Living, learning, Retaining, and Experiencing. <---- Uhh thank you captain obvious!!
Experience is the key. Our bodies, mind, and inner being crave all sorts of experience. <--- yeah. I know.
Once we take experience out of the equation life becomes dull and repetitive. Routine as nice as it may be gets atrocious. <--- Hmmm. Very True.
When your relationship with individuals becomes dull and boring seek new experiences.
Most of the time we don't ever actually become disenchanted. We simply forget how to experience things with the people we are closest too. Thats usually when you feel like the person has changed. Don't get me wrong there are times where whoa they have. They so definitely-without a doubt- have changed. Most of the time though you ignore the need to experience new things for so long, we hold them in for so long, that we forget how to talk to or even try to experience things with said people. So its very easy to go "OOOOHHHHHH SHINY!"
Don't fear experience.
Don't fear yourself for craving experience.
AND. Most of all. I can't emphasize this enough.
Never be ashamed of your own curiosity. No matter how society looks upon it. Curiosity fuels your own personal journey.
Were born curious for a reason.
Curiosity helps us discover new things about ourselves ,the world around us, and the people we love.
Sometimes this ache for knowledge leads us down the path that reveals our purpose in life, helps us discover our spirituality, or even hidden aspects of our sexuality.